question series pt 1: Getting Started as a Psychic, Medium, or Healer

From time to time, I receive questions from clients as well as people who are interested in my work as a psychic medium. These questions range from how I operate my business as someone who is blind to how I receive information during a reading. I will continue to explore spiritual and self-help topics on …

Are spiritual people allowed to have negative emotions?

For most of my life, I have been afraid to express my true emotions. I used to believe that negative emotions need to be swept under the rug and that letting go of the past meant suppressing painful emotions. Often, when I became sad, I would only allow myself to cry in private most of …

Compassion Isn’t Just for Everyone Else

If you’re anything like me, there are times that you have an unlimited amount of compassion for everyone else but you. If I don’t practice having compassion for myself, I tend to absorb the energy of others very quickly. As a result, I can become overwhelmed. Sound familiar? If so, you can definitely benefit from …

the art of disengaging

If you’re anything like me, then you’ve probably spent your entire life trying to prove yourself and please others. If you’ve been engaging in these behaviors for years, you’ve probably learned that people-pleasing and seeking approval from others can be a major energy drain. They are also wasting your time. How can you turn things …

Don’t worry about divine timing.

You set your intentions, said your affirmations, and cleared out some limiting beliefs. You engaged in your spiritual practice, took action on your goals, and continued your mindset work. Now, you are in alignment with your manifestation efforts. However, time has gone by, and nothing seems to happen. What’s going on? Were you so focused …

celebrating your accomplishments

Many of us, myself included, don’t take enough time to celebrate our accomplishments. Instead, we have a tendency to focus on our failures and mistakes. However, that will only lead to more of the same thing. I made a list of ten biggest accomplishments, and I challenge you to do the same. You will most …

“coming out” as a psychic medium:my story

Prior to “coming out” as a psychic medium, I was a wreck. I was terrified that I would be judged, but then I had to remind myself that people like me aren’t burned at the steak anymore. It just doesn’t happen around here. Besides, it was really difficult to lead a double life, and I …

Intention is Everything!

By now, many people have heard of the law of attraction. We attract circumstances that are in alignment with our vibration. The first step in this process is deciding exactly what you want to create, or setting an intention. One of the reasons that we never seem to get what we want is that we’re …

the power of forgiveness

Have you ever noticed that when someone causes us pain, we hold onto the memory of that situation for dear life? What do you think would happen if we just forgave and moved on? The reason that forgiveness is so difficult is that we have this misconception that forgiveness means excusing the other person’s behavior. …

overcoming perceived limitations

Many of our so-called limitations come from our own perceptions of ourselves. If I listened to everyone who told me that something wasn’t possible for me, I wouldn’t be doing much of anything! Although I was born blind, my first memorable spiritual experience was a vision. I believe that the spirits began to teach me …

10 benefits to implementing a Spiritual Practice

When you think of implementing a spiritual practice, what comes to mind? Going to church or another sacred place? Meditation? No matter which practice you choose, implementing a spiritual practice has several benefits. 1. You get to connect with the divine and learn about why you came to this planet. 2. 2. Develop your intuition, …

why there’s no “wrong” path

People have asked me why I chose to become a psychic medium rather than use my hard-won social work degree. While I do not have to justify my decision to them, I wonder if they are really asking me. Perhaps they are wondering whether they have made the “right” decision in their own careers or …

Unhappiness as a Message

For many years, I suffered from recurring bouts of severe depression. Even when I seemed to recover, I wasn’t happy. Sure, I would go about my day with a smile on my face, but that was for everyone else’s benefit. Whenever someone was able to see through my smile, they asked why I was unhappy. …

staying present

Many of us live and work in a chaotic environment. There are bills to pay, family obligations, and plenty of other activities to take up our time Often, we find ourselves jumping from thought to thought or activity to activity because we’re so afraid that we don’t have enough time. However, we were all given …

caregiver grief

When you are caring for someone who is near death, it can be both challenging and rewarding at the same time. That is why it is important for you to care for yourself. If self-care is not a priority, you may feel unable to care for your loved one or provide emotional support to friends …

Mindset, mindset, mindset!

Okay, so you’ve completed all of the practical steps you need in order to manifest a goal. You’ve completed a vision board, said your affirmations, visualized, uncovered limiting beliefs, implemented spiritual practices, and taken action steps. If you’ve consistently applied these steps, you’re well on your way to manifesting what you desire and truly deserve! …

What was that incessant knocking?

Many people who have lost loved ones wonder if they are still around and whether they can hear your thoughts without the assistance of a medium. After listening to countless experiences of spirits communicating with their loved ones and after experiencing it for myself, my answer is definitely yes! They can send us signs of …

There’s always enough.

In our society, we can find plenty of reasons to fear never having enough. If you follow the media, you hear that there never seems to be enough money, food, employment, and the list continues. What would you do if there was always enough? Believe it or not, there is enough of everything to go …

experiencing loss on the holidays

For many people, the holidays are an exciting time of family, friends, food, and gifts. However, there are also people who are dealing with the pain of losing a loved one. Here are some tips for making those losses a little more barable during this holiday season. The most important thing that you can do …

positive thinking:Is it worth it?

If you were to turn on a news broadcast, you would probably find many reasons to think negative thoughts. However, if you were to change your perception just a little bit, you might just find reasons to be positive. Also, if you walked into almost any establishment and eavesdropped for just a minute, you’d most …