Too many obstacles?

Yesterday, I was taking a walk when I noticed something. On two separate occasions, my path was almost completely blocked by obstacles.

There was a sidewalk that was completely blocked by several cars. On that occasion, someone helped me to navigate around them so I could continue along my usual route. On the second occasion, several bikes were blocking the entrance to where I was trying to go.

This time, someone moved them out of the way so that I could pass.

I began to think about how the external environment can be a reflection of our inner dialog and our perceptions of what is going on in our lives.

When faced with perceived obstacles in life, we have at least three choices. We can choose to ask the divine or another person to assist us to navigate around it. We can also work with Spirit to remove obstacles from our path. Sometimes, we may choose to abandon the obstacle-ridden path altogether. Either way, you are exactly where you are supposed to be.


Learning to Dance

During the past year, I lost a close friend to cancer, found out that two of my friends have to leave their home, and made some business decisions that sent me into debt. On a more positive note, I began to read the Akashic records, gained clarity on how to move forward, increased my confidence as a medium, and gained even more appreciation for the people who have been supporting me on my journey.

Mostly, I’m learning to dance with the constant ebb and flow of life while allowing Spirit to take the lead. I’m learning to have compassion for myself. This is much more appealing than the state of resistance that we fall into at times.

What happens when we don’t listen to our spirit guides?

I used to worry that my spirit guides would abandon me or become angry if I did not follow their guidance. However, I have found that this is not the case. If I don’t get the message the first time, they will patiently continue to send me the same message through various means until I act on it. If I still insist on ignoring their guidance, my guides will allow me to follow my own path while still trying to encourage me to follow their guidance. If I still insist on ignoring the guidance, the worst thing that happens is that I learn some difficult life lessons. Even after that, my guides won’t be offended or frustrated as many of us might when others don’t take our advice.
Instead, they’ll ask me what I learned from that experience, and they will help me to get back on track. One of the things I’ve learned from being a psychic medium is that Spirit will always have your ack. They do not judge us as we judge ourselves, so please reach out to these heavenly helpers.

Five Life Lessons I’ve learned the Hard Way

While some people master their life lessons quickly, others tend to take their time.
Many others, like me, learn some of them the hard way. In fact, I’m still working through some of them.

1. Sometimes good enough is simply good enough. We are not meant to do everything perfectly. We can give ourselves permission to make mistakes and hopefully learn from them, and we can always improve ourselves as we go. I’ve learned that extreme perfectionism can trigger bouts of depression, anxiety, and procrastination.

2. It is essential to let go of the past. It may take the form of clearing out old limiting beliefs, healing emotional wounds, or forgiveness work. Either way, letting go of past hurts and negativity clears the way for more positivity.

3. We are all worthy of love. We are worthy of love from ourselves, other people, and God. It doesn’t matter how many mistakes we’ve made because all is forgiven. True unconditional love does not judge us for those things.

4. Other people’s rejection, hatred, intolerance, anger, and unforgiveness most likely has nothing to do with you. Often times, these people are projecting their own hurts and insecurities. Try not to judge them.

5. It is okay to ask for help. If we don’t, we just make things harder for ourselves. Also, by asking for help, we give another person a chance to be of service. This is a lesson that I’m definitely still working on, but I can tell you that every time I’ve asked for help, I was rewarded. Yes, you might encounter those who are less willing to help, but you can choose to steer clear.

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why there’s no “wrong” path

People have asked me why I chose to become a psychic medium rather than use my hard-won social work degree. While I do not have to justify my decision to them, I wonder if they are really asking me.
Perhaps they are wondering whether they have made the “right” decision in their own careers or relationships. While I cannot answer that question for them, I can assure them that there is no “right” or “wrong” path for them. There are, however, paths that can either lead them closer to, or further away from, their own happiness, freedom, and success.
While it may seem as though we have chosen the wrong path at times, we are actually just taking a detour. I believe that these detours are necessary for our growth and development because they can teach us valuable life lessons and get us back on track. For example, my social work training has taught me a few things that are definitely helpful when working as a psychic medium.
For example, I learned to develop self-awareness. I now understand when I am taking on someone else’s energy. Once I acknowledge that, I can take steps to correct the situation. I’ve also learned how to be completely present with my clients. My social work training has also helped me to stay out of judgment when working with clients. Also, through my experience in college and internships, I have learned a number of life lessons from professors, friends, and clients. Although it took me a long time to get to where I am now, I am greatful for these life lessons and experiences.
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